Monday, July 29, 2013

After Phoenix

We were home one week when Dina, Ellie, Scott and I left for Oklahoma City.  We flew into Dallas, stayed over night, then drove to OK...You are probably wondering why the heck were we going to OK in the middle of summer!  Well, last February Ellie tried out for a select pre-Olympic volleyball team.  they had 36 try-outs throughout the US.  Ellie was in the 12 and under division and she tried out for the Libero position. Libero means "free" in Italian, which in term of volleyball means she is free to go in and out playing in the back row only, but she can just run in and take the place of someone in the back, then go out, but go right back in for someone who is rotating to the back row.  Anyway, they selected only 24 girls to come to this Olympic Training Camp and Ellie was one of the lucky 24!  She stayed on the campus of the Central Oklahoma University in Edmond, OK and she roomed in a dorm with another girl.  The camp was 5 days and she loved it...and she would love to go back.  You have to try out each year until you finally reach the 16 and under level, then you are considered the girls to watch...maybe be on the Olympic team!  And of course that was Ellie's goal a year ago when she announced that she wants to play in the Olympics!!
 We were told to go to Roanoke, just down the road from our Hotel for the BEST BBQ ever!  They were right, it was awesome.

 Across the street from the Hard Eight BBQ was the store called "Hey Sugar"...check out all the different kind of popcorn they had....Mt. Dew popcorn, can you believe it?
 Of course we had to spend a day roaming around Bricktown...and have lunch on the canal and visit the Oklahoma City Memorial. 

The wall that has so many pictures and memorabilia of the ones who lost their lives.

The water is only an inch deep, it stands where the building was...to the right are the "Field of Empty Chairs".  Each symbolizes the life that was lost (168).  They are in rows, one for each of the nine floors of the building and represent the floor on which those killed were working or visiting.  The shorter "chairs" are the 19 children that were killed.  The bronze and stone chair rests on a glass base etched with the name of the victim.  By day, the chairs seem to float above their translucent bases.  By night, the glass bases illuminate as beacons of hope.

As you enter the Memorial from the street, the East Gate wall is etched with these words:
  We come here to remember those who were killed, those who survived and those changed forever.  May all who leave here know the impact of violence.  May this Memorial offer comfort, strength, peace, hope and serenity.

We came back here on the last day so that we could bring Ellie to see this Memorial. She was very touched by it.  As you step through the wall and look up, the time 9:01 is engraved.  At the opposite end of the reflecting pool the wall is engraved with the time:  9:03.  The entry time of 9:01 on April 19, 1995 represents the innocence of the city before the attack.  The west gate or wall that has 9:03 represents the moment we were all changed forever.

As we drove out of the city heading back to Dallas we passed the town of Moore where the tornado hit in May of this year...whole blocks were completely leveled.  There were two large  groups of clean-up people, sorting and stacking the debris.



The cement foundations are visible where homes once stood.  We were told by a neighbor that the people will have to have a new foundation poured as it is not safe to use the existing one.  Above, Ellie is standing at the fence that totally encompasses a school area that is gone.  the flowers were arranged to spell out HOPE and there was a sign thanking the teachers of that elementary school for keeping the children safe.

It is one thing to see devastation like this on TV, but to witness it in real life is certainly something that leaves a lasting impression.  We here in the Pacific Northwest are very fortunate to NOT have tornadoes or hurricanes.  Yes, we get rain and sometimes flooding, maybe a 100 year flood will come in our life time, but nothing like the devastation you see in the pictures above...something they live with on a yearly basis.

 Oh, did we ever think of our SIL, Aaron, the fisherman, the hunter, he would have loved this store!
And lastly I wanted to show you these HUGE statues depicting the GREAT Land Run of 1889!  You can see how big they are as Dina is standing next to one.  People rushed to claim some land that was just opened up for settlement. Some who made the run sought to beat others to choice homesteads by entering early and hiding out until the legal time of entry.  These people came to be known as "sooners".

Thanks for hanging in there with me through all these pictures and stories...I wonder if Ellie will make it next year and if it will be in the same place or a different location.  OK is the home of the "sitting" Olympic volleyball team.  They spent an evening with the girls, they played but could only be on their bottoms...(most of them have no legs, one leg or maybe a prosthesis.)  The net is obviously much lower to the ground and the girls sure had a good time learning how to play by scooting on their bottoms.

Now we are off to Coeur d'Alene, Idaho for 9 days to play in the lake, golf, fish, and just relax and have fun with the whole family!  So stay tuned for more pictures when I get back!!

Sunday, July 28, 2013

Catching up....



I have lots of stories to tell, well, maybe not too many, but several for sure!  First I will give you the GOOD NEWS!  Dina had her port taken out!!  Isn't that fantastic?  The first few days were hard with some pain and lots of discomfort, couldn't sleep on her right side, but she is healing and all is good now! 

I had another CT scan, saw the oncologist and all is well with that also.  Sent the report to the urologist as we had a scan from the lungs down to the pelvis done to check on those stones.  Well, I still have some stones in the kidney.  However, I have no pain and feel really good!  And more good news is that there is NO bacteria infection from a urine test!!  Yeah!!  However, I do still have stones and there are two kinds (fortunately NOT the proteous bacteria) I grow both the calcium oxalate and the calcium phosphate kind!  Which is odd because they are totally opposite.  the doctor believes I have what is called renal tubular acidosis...so now we need to figure out why and how to prevent more from growing.  I will be seeing a nephrologist and have a complete work-up done to see how we can conquer this thing (good thing I have met my deductible!!).

So I would say that Dina and I are on the road to a full recovery!! 

Now for the fun stuff!!  In June we were in AZ to watch Ellie play Volleyball in a tournament in Phoenix...we love watching her play!!  And it was Lily's birthday while we were there, so we did lots of fun things with her!  Dina, Lily and Lily's friend, Jane and Ellie were the only ones to join us...Jamie and Jalen stayed home and had fun!
               
Here are the girls having a good time at Mirabel. 
                          
A very rare site - seeing Papa in the pool!!  It was HOT!


Lily's B-day...she chose a new Italian restaurant we discovered...Lily is on the far right.
Lily is our animal lover, she wanted to go to a pet store, so we did and she held the guinea pig
Heidi and Dina...good friends since grade school and her family just moved to the area!
For Lily's birthday Scott, Dina, Lily and Jane all went horse back riding into the hills around Cave Creek..they all had a blast!  Lily said it was the best birthday ever! 
To end the evening of Lily's birthday, we took her and Jane to an amusement park, again the little girls had so much fun running around to all the rides, they even did a zip line over the park!!

Tuesday, June 18, 2013

Sorry, sorry sorry!

So sorry I have neglected keeping you all posted on these "stone" issues!  Ha...right now I am waiting for a 4mm stone to pass!  Yikes you say!  Well no worries, I am NOT in pain...unbelievable as that sounds!!  I had an x-ray and it showed that stone to be fairly close to the bladder...so I am now I on Flomax to help relax things so that it will pass easily.  I guess the x-ray also showed some obscurity in the kidney, which could mean more random floaters around...not sure, but I will have a CT scan on July 15 to determine if everything got cleared out or not!

In the meantime, life goes on, right?  The Foelker's house did NOT sell, we were so sad about that.  The potential buyer could not get financing for the back empty lot.  In the meantime, we have spent several days cleaning and hauling things to either the dump or the Goodwill store.  We discovered an empty garbage can cemented into the ground in the storage area off the family room.  It is one of those old garbage cans that was buried and had a lid that you step on to pop it up...not sure how the garbage people retrieved all the garbage in a hole, but there it is.  Scott is going to fill it with gravel and then pour cement on the top...hopefully we can make it look a little better..it does have a rim about an inch that sticks up above the ground so he is planning to pound it down to make it flat!  Bill had all sorts of man made platforms, covered with many carpet pieces (of course) in this back storage space...it was an accident waiting to happen, for sure!  So we hauled everything out of there, it is a really nice storage area.  Things are looking good though...the house is finally all clean and we will go over today for some "staging" to get it ready for showing!

Sunday was Father's day...can you believe I did not take a picture of the "Big Father"?  Not sure how that happened...my thought was on getting a picture of Dina and me with our short hairs.  She looks so beautiful (of course a mother always thinks that!!) and I know this will be the last time she will ever have short hair..so I wanted a picture of us together...can you figure out which is the daughter and which is the mother?  *wink

I pulled out my camera and the first thing she said was, "What are you doing?"  She told me she didn't look pretty...no make up on today!
 
We not only celebrated Father's Day with a BBQ in their backyard (notice all the Tiki lights behind them?) we also celebrated their 14th anniversary!!  They left the next day for three days in Coeur d'Alene for a little golfing and relaxing without any children!!  We cannot be happier and thankful to Our Lord for giving us good health for Dina...the latest scan still showed remission!!

Thanks for checking in with me!  We are heading to Arizona on Thursday to watch Ellie play some volleyball in a big nationwide tournament in Phoenix...Dina is going and will have Lily and a friend of Lily's...we decided to join them...the weather will be hot for sure.  We understand it is above 100 even way north where our house is...YIKES, record high temperatures for north Scottsdale!

Wednesday, May 29, 2013

News update

Just wanted to let you all know that Dina is still feeling fabulous and looking just as great!  Short hair is very appealing to her...I MUST get a picture of my two girls together with me...I think it might be the last and only time they will both have short hair...the caption might read something like:  'Can you tell which is the mother and which is the daughter?'  Ha Ha...only the  "color " of hair can tell for sure!!!

As you all know, I have been dealing with a UTI since the lung surgery (last November 25).  It actually showed its ugly head mid December.  So I have been treating it since that time and while I did get some relief  while on the various antibiotics, it was always back as soon as I finished.  After the last round, and I had just started up again, I could tell things were not good.  So I went in for more testing.  The doctor seemed to think that perhaps the five kidney stones that we knew were in my left kidney (from all the scans I had prior to the lung surgery) was harboring the bacteria making it difficult if not IMPOSSIBLE to get rid of it.  Last Thursday I was in day surgery for a laser lithotripsy.  I went in at 9:30 am, had the surgery about 10:45, was scheduled to leave at 2:30 pm, actually left at 7 PM!  Hmmm...I don't do so well with pain pills and anesthetic it seems.  I was quite nauseous in the recovery room and stayed an hour and a half longer than planned.  And I had some vomiting issues in both recovery and in my room.  Okay...I was finally able to go home and went right to bed and pretty much slept away the first two days at home.  The surgery was a little more invasive and intensive than originally planned.  The largest of the little stones back in the fall was measured at 5 mm....what the doctor faced was a boulder about 2.5 CM!  (That is about an inch!)  He was absolutely correct in assuming the bacteria latched onto the stones... and it grew and grew...very rapidly!  the surgery itself took longer, he had a lot to blast away, he tried getting in there and pulling it out, but was unable to do so.  I have a stent which will come out next Monday and I shudder to think what will come out with it and afterwards.  This type of bacteria which I am growing is almost impossible to get rid of once it gets into the kidney...much easier in the bladder.  Scott and I have been doing some reading and we have lots of questions to ask the doctor when we see him on Monday.  It seems I may always have this and since I seem to make stones, I may have this procedure done many more times in my lifetime and will need to be on a low dosage of antibiotics for the rest of my life...well, let's not get ahead of ourselves, those are just possibilities...there could always be a miracle!

So how am I feeling?  Really not so great.  I stopped the pain pills and only taking ibuprofen and that seems to be working for me.  I have a lot of burning, and cramping and back aches, and generally just feeling very yucky.  I am hoping once the stent comes out, some of those symptoms will disappear. I am continuing with the low dosage of antibiotic, plus a hormonal drug, plus the cranberry capsules, and the 1000 mg of vitamin C.

Oh...and I am not bothered one bit by this rain...if I have to feel crummy, why not have the weather be just as bad!

Now for some good news.  Bill Foelker's house sold before we even put it on the market!  Someone stopped by while the inside was being painted and left a card.  Scott called and he has given us earnest money!!  Yeah!  That was easy!  Then, we started looking at houses with Lacey hoping she could find something and move into a house a little bit bigger for her family.  She found one in Hebb Park and made an offer and it was accepted.  That put her and Aaron on Fast Track to get their own home cleaned up, fixed up, repaired, painted and everything else that two dogs and three wild kids can do to a house.  In very short time, they managed all of that and the day we left for Disneyland, May 16, her house went on the market and the next day someone offered full price for it!  Yahoo!!  It looks like this summer will be a big move for Lacey...a five bedroom and bathroom home, TV rooms, bedroom for each of the kiddos and their house guest, Aaron's step sister.  I will post some pictures soon...!!

That's it friends!  I will let you know what the doctor says on Monday!!

Disneyland HERE we come!

                                WARNING!  PICTURE HEAVY!!


It has been a tradition to take the kids to Disneyland for their 5th birthday...we actually missed Jalen's last year, but his parents took their family...so it wasn't missed by him!  We did miss Addie's 5th, but after talking it over with Lacey, we decided it would be better to wait one more year so that Tristan will have grown and would be able to go on more rides.  So this was the year...and we were there for Lacey's official birthday!

I think there is just something magical about  Disneyland when you bring the young ones...they are so enthralled with the magic and the sights, not to mention seeing your favorite Disney characters walking around!  We have in our midst a disney theme park master ride planner...namely:  PAPA!!  He kept all of our tickets and would walk across the park to get "fast pass" tickets for all of us, then come back and meet us after we had all just gotten off a ride!  His walking to and fro allowed us to ride on all the little kiddie rides...you know them...Dumbo the flying elephant!  the spinning Tea Cups!  and don't forget all about "Bug Land"  Oh yes, Addie and I rode some awesome bugs in "It's a Bugs Life"!!
Walking down Main Street USA


Getting ready for the ride:  California Soarin'  We did it twice...such a beautiful ride!




While Mommy, Daddy and Caleb were riding the ride below, Addie and Tristan were able to see "Woody" and get his picture taken with them!

Lacey and Aaron are in the third car car, the person with the hands up is Caleb, right behind Lacey.  (Note the big smile on Aaron's face!


Now look at Aaron!  This is a big roller coaster that goes so fast and makes turns and dips like you wouldn't believe...Scott and I were lucky to be the photographers with Addie and Tristan and Woody!
Ariel and Addie

Belle and Addie

Cinderella and Addie

Mulan and Addie

Aurora and Addie

You can walk all around the theme park and try to find the princesses...at just the right time, and stand in a long line, just to be told when you are getting close that they are taking a break!  Or you can do what we did, and have lunch in Ariel's Grotto and have the five Princess's come to you while you eat!  This was my  birthday gift to Addie...just Mommy, me and Addie having lunch with the Princess's...Oh, I don't think Addie ate too much, but she was so excited to have them come up to her and have them sign her 'guest book' and get her picture taken with them!  A highlight for sure!  This is a MUST for any young princess!!  Start saving, because it is the most expensive lunch you may ever have...but well worth it!  And the food was actually really good and there was a lot of it too!


 Addie was SOOO  excited to see Phineas and Ferb and the two dancers and when they invited all the young ones up to dance, she did NOT hesitate in the least.

Addie is to the left of the dancer, with her hands on her hips

White water rafting at its best!  Yes, we all did it and only a couple of us came out really wet...I stayed relatively dry!












And finally as we are heading out of the park...goodbye Disneyland...next adventure will be Disney World!  Scott and I agreed it needed to be sooner rather than later...one last Hoorah while we can still both manage to  walk the miles it takes to enjoy the grandchildren and to enjoy the park!