News update on Dina

Dina had her chest and neck CT scan and also the PET scan last Wednesday, then on Thursday she saw the ENT doctor who just happens to be a golfing friend of both Scott and Jamie (the oncologist used their names when making the appointment) and after examening her, asked if she would like to have the biopsy sooner...she of course said YES!  So he did it on Friday, yesterday, Sept 21.  She had two enlarged lymph glands and he was able to extract one, not the biggest which he would have liked to have gotten, but it was too close to her lung and too deep, he didn't want to risk a collapsed lung.  He felt like he got a very good sample...so because he took this biopsy 5 days earlier, they are now able to go back to the oncologist next Friday...which is also 5 days earlier.  All of this means less waiting time to start a treatment plan and that gives all of us a little more peace of mind.

The other good news for Dina is the visit with her gynecologist...the doctor was very confident that there was not any reason for concern with her extra bleeding for a month.  The doctor said it is very common to have bleeding after having an injection of steroids...so Dina has been given a prescription of progesterone to help flush out her system and get it back to normal...that alone made Dina feel good.

Now because of the erosion of her sacrum, she really cannot be on her feet too much, it just hurts too much. We are all encouraging her to take this time to rest her body, to stay off her feet as much as possible and let everyone else take care of things.

She is so blessed to have many many wonderful friends ready to do ANYTHING for her.  Two friends from Seattle came right down and stayed for several days just to be here for her.  Em and Jenni, YOU are the BEST!  One good friend started an online "Meal Train" and the site has been passed to all our bible study ladies, MOMS group from church and all her friends...an Ice Chest is on her front porch and people are dropping off meals on the day they signed up ..she gets meals 4 days a week...and that burden of preparing and caring for her family is now left to all  these hundreds of awesome ladies...She is truly blessed and she knows it.  She is just surrounded by goodness and love from many.  And this site is not inclusive to just meals, you can sign up for help with getting kiddos to activities, pickup - drop off, doctor's appointments etc...anything she might need help with, she can get it.  Thankfully she also has a wonderful family and sister who is there for her and as Lacey said, "I am on it"...we want her to heal and not worry about the business or anything but staying positive and nurturing herself back to health.

So I guess that is about all for now...We will have all test results back when we see the oncologist on Friday and I have no doubt that he will have a plan in mind and will be ready to start the treatment to eliminate this cancer.

Psalm 29:11  The Lord gives His people strength, the Lord blesses them with peace.

She looks beautiful even in a hospital cap (before biopsy)

resting after biopsy...I am knitting her prayer shawl and have a rosary CD playing...very peaceful

Psalm 29:11 The Lord gives His people strength

We must turn to God for strength...to give us His love to sustain us through this journey.  The oncologist appointment was not good news, but not hopeless, so I am holding onto that thought.

First Dina's spleen was massively enlarged (oh...I don't think I like that word "massively"...that kind of scares the crap out of me.)  And there were other enlarged lymph nodes in her lower back.  The doctor asked if she felt any lymph glands in her neck, or groin...she shook her head NO.  But when he physically put his hands on her, he said her neck glands are enlarged, but not her groin and not under her arms.

Even without doing a biopsy he is 100% sure it is lymphoma...the biopsy will determine what kind of lymphoma...so we start with baby steps and get more information to see what we need to do to fight this battle.

Last week after the ultra sound showed the enlarged spleen and the doctor ordered the CT scan for both the upper stomach region and the lower pelvis area (because of her piriformus issues) he said the two were not related...Well, guess what?  They are totally related and the Piriformus Syndrome is not what she has been dealing with at all.  She has a lesion on her lower spine...this lesion has been eroding her sacrum bone and that has caused all the pain she has been experiencing for the last four months in her back and lower legs.

Can you imagine how long this cancer has been in her body?  Like how long before it finally "fractured" the bone enough to cause such pain?  That is scary...but we must move forward and not look back.  We must stay positive...above all else keep the positive thoughts and the will to conquer this cancer.

The doctor was fabulous, all four of us:  Scott --(once again this oncologist asked Scott if he was a doctor...he is the BEST to bring with you to the doctor or hospital, he just knows all the questions to ask, ones you would think of, but others that you wouldn't think until you walked out the door, and yet again more questions that you wouldn't even know to ask), me, Dina and Jamie all agree that we like him.  He was a great listener and because he does this every day, he laid it all out for us and how we are going to proceed to fight this....and he had NO doubt in his mind that we can fight and win this.

On Wednesday, she is going to have a chest and neck CT Scan and also a PET Scan.  On Thursday she is going to see the Ear, Nose, Throat Specialist who wants to have a physical exam before doing a biopsy.  On Friday she is seeing her OB/GYN as she has been bleeding every day since August 16.  Next Tuesday she is scheduled for her biopsy and they will take a lymph gland from her neck (there was a cancellation....praise the Lord)  One week later she will be back in the oncologist office and all the test results will be back and a plan of action will be put into place.  Meaning chemo most likely ...he says the bone will heal itself after the lesion is killed off.  October 3 is the date with the oncologist...then we will know what kind of lymphoma this is.

I don't know any more, I know emotionally she is a wreck as is Jamie...the two older girls know a little...Ellie deals with this in her way, which is kind of making jokes or being "flip" with comments, but then in the quiet of her room she breaks down and cries.  Lily who is 9, just looked at Dina and said, "It's okay Mommy God will take care of you"....

Dina has a fabulous support group...her two best friends from Seattle both came down this last weekend, they didn't overlap their time, but they were both here for her...Yesterday her friend stayed with Jalen as we all went to the doctor appointment and she got Lily to her volleyball practice, went back to the school to get Ellie and took her to her volleyball practice, then brought them home...what fabulous friends she has.  And of course her sister will do anything for her...help in any way.  I think more of a burden will fall on Lacey in keeping the Yogurt Shacks supplied and running and the Papa Murphy's too...but she is willing to do that.  What she said to Dina was:  "I'm on it"

So we will all pitch in and help and we just ask for prayers...prayers for healing, prayers for strength and prayers for comfort...Thank you all so much

Prayers Needed

Hello dear friends and family.  I know that I have many dear followers of this blog...it is my way to "remember" all the wonderful events in my life (and sometimes the not so wonderful events...like deaths).  But today I am going to ask for your prayers for my daughter Dina.

I have not written anything specifically about what has been going on with her, but now we need all of our Prayers Warriors to help us get through what is happening in her life....and therefore all of our family.

The beginning started last May when her family was in Disneyland for Jalen's 5th birthday, they were there for three nights and four days.  Now you know there is plenty of walking at Disneyland...one could easily do 10 miles + a day and that can be exhausting.  The last morning when Dina got up she had terrible shooting pain down her leg and then followed by numbness.  When she got home she saw the doctor...he was not able to manipulate her because her muscles were so tight.  I do believe he gave her some muscle relaxants but it really did not help and with three children and 8 stores to take care of, she couldn't be a 'zombie' all day...so she didn't take many of those  pills except at night to help her sleep.

She continued to see the doctor trying to figure out what was going on...she could barely walk and was in just so much pain...they did an Xray and that did not show anything, which when she got the news she burst into tears thinking that was not a good resolution, because it didn't help her in getting better.  After more exams and sending her to a specialist it was determined she had "Piriformus Syndrome"...now I am not medically intelligent by any means, and you may want to google this yourself, but I can give you the "gist" of what it is.    Basically the piriformus muscle is a big deep muscle, so even physical therapy was not helping.  The Sciatica nerve, which is the longest nerve in the body runs through this muscle.  If the muscle goes in spasm it compresses on the sciatica nerve and causes terrible pain in the lower back, buttocks and down the leg.

Finally on August 16 she had an injection directly into her Sciatica nerve (not a pleasant experience) but she started to feel some relief in that she could bend forward now without much pain, but her hip, buttocks and legs still ached and throbbed.

Now I am going to bring you up to date...after one month from the first injection of cortisone in the sciatica nerve she went to see the doctor hoping he will recommend another injection but this time in the piriformus muscle itself. (During this time she has had PT twice a week and not getting a lot of relief)  And to add to this grief, she had been spot bleeding for this month...then she broke out in some weird welt/rashes on her body.  So she saw the doctor and he did a physical exam of her stomach etc.  (the rash he thinks is contact dermatitis...possibly from being on a boat in Coeur d'Alene over two weeks ago!)

The doctor sent her for an ultra sound and then within a few hours he called and asked to see her and Jamie at either her house or the office, whichever would be most convenient for them.  That totally sent her into panic mode.  And as it turned out, Jamie was back up in Coeur d'Alene golfing at Gozzer with 7 buddies...so Scott went with her to see the doctor...the ultra sound showed an enlarged spleen and lymph nodules on her spleen so at this point he is diagnosing lymphoma.  She had blood drawn and she also had a CT SCAN for both the spleen area and also the piriformus area...she sees an oncologist on Monday afternoon.  We are trying to stay positive and praying for the best...and according to the doctor he is hoping for lymphoma as he says it has a 90% cure rate...

I am just writing this to ask for prayers during this very emotional and distressing time for all of us, but especially for Dina and Jamie who are living with this...BTW...Jamie did fly home Thursday night (he had a call from the doctor that told him to come home and be with his wife!)....of course he was a basket case on the golf course anyway and was not having fun!

so THANK YOU family and friends for your prayers and I will keep you posted with news after we hear more on Monday after seeing the oncologist...

This is Dina and her family in August up at Gozzer in Coeur d'Alene...her family came to the Iacolucci reunion last year in 2011.  thank you for your prayers...

2012 Gozzer Fun and unexpected event

You know we look forward to our week at Coeur d'Alene in Idaho...It is just a relaxing week, sitting by the pool, going to the lake, boating, golfing for some of the people...kids having fun...good times with the family.
This year Scott and I flew up to Spokane because Scott could only stay until Monday morning (he is coaching volleyball at Rex Putnam...so daily doubles take priority over vacation....for him!)  Now me, I have my ticket to come home on Friday...a whole week of enjoying the lake, touring the town and eating at my favorite lunch eatery:  The San Francisco Sourdough Eatery...oh my mouth just waters thinking about that yummy sandwich.

We rent a car and head out from the airport...we have volunteered to do all the food shopping for both households...we have two condos...Lacey's family, Scott and I are in one, Dina's family, her two 20 + year old babysitters and later in the week, her MIL and FIL along with another grandson, Jake are staying together in a separate condo.  So we buy food for everybody...made a stop at Costco and the grocery store...we loaded up so we can have breakfasts and lunches at home...or picnic lunches at the lake...for dinners we bought some lasagna and chicken alfredo with penne pasta...other nights we will just go out!

So Scott and I fly out early Thursday morning and are so anxious to take care of our errands so we can get to the condo and hit the golf course (now you all know, SCOTT hits the golf course, I hit the POOL!)  And luck would have it that the babysitters are taking the three Snook kids to the LAKE...so yes, I get a quiet relaxing sit by the pool, reading a book and even taking a snooze!  Soooo nice!

Friday morning, the three golfers (Jamie, Scott and Dina) head out early to get in a round of golf...it is the weekend for the club championship and even though Jamie golfs year round, Scott has only golfed twice in the year...so he is needing a little practice and warm up for the event.  Dina too has not played because of her piriformus syndrome...but she got a shot of cortizone in her back/spine area and it is finally taking hold and she doesn't have as much pain...so she is anxious to hit some balls too.  Now Ellie and I get up early with them and decide to go to the workout area by the pool...It was FREEZING that morning...and Scott showed up and said it was too cold to play but he would meet up with them at 9:30...so he and Ellie worked out with some volleyball conditioning.  I did 30 minutes on the elliptical and 40 minutes on a bike and did some stretching too.  I felt a little tightness and soreness in my lower right back, so when I was done working and stretching I went back to the condo and laid down...took a nap, read my book and by late afternoon was beginning to think that this was more like "kidney stone" pain...UGH!  Scott was hitting balls, but when he got home about 6:30 pm, I told him I thought I was passing a kidney stone...and of course his first reaction is to get me to the hospital.  Now you know we are on the other side of the lake, up high, so it takes about 20 - 30 minutes to get to the ER...This wouldn't be a big deal, except I seem to have a history of "kidney stone" issues...remember back in February I had some blasted out of my left kidney...one of the stones was measured at 3/4 inch!!  And since then I have had two xrays to keep an eye on the stones in the other kidney...But what really makes us nervous is the first kidney stone I had 12 years ago...I was hospitalized with it because it was obstructed...had a stent in the wee morning hours.   Later the next day I went into sepsis shock and pulmonary edema and I have had several kidney infections...so we try to err on the side of being cautious and having things checked out.  So on to my story.  Yes it is a kidney stone...no surprise there...I am sent back to the condo with four prescriptions...an antibiotic, pain pills, a pill to relax my urethra and an anti nausea pill...

Saturday was not a good day...couldn't keep down water or anything else...I was very lucky though in that we got the master suite with a big window overlooking the lake...such a beautiful view and so relaxing...so if I had to be in bed, that was at least a nice location!  Sunday is a little better...I made sure I took my anti nausea pill and was able to keep down some toast...I even tenderly went to the pool to lay down on a lounge chair...I figured if I had to lay around, that would at least let me be with the family and watch the kids enjoying themselves.  It just hurt to move...so I didn't do much moving at all!  Sunday night Scott asked if I wanted to come home with him Monday morning, and I thought about it and decided that would be the best place for me...so it was sad to leave the lake...I had planned to meet two cousins at the resort across the lake and bring them up to Gozzer and have lunch.  I was very sad about canceling that, but I look forward to doing it next year!

Caleb and Tristan in the "cat" pool (it's really the kiddie pool, but Addie calls it the cat pool!)

do you believe Ellie is hard at work or hardly working?  she is working hard to be the best volleyball player EVER!

Addie and Jalen in the "kiddie pool"

Lily having a snack of apples

I only have a few pictures from my camera, but I will get started with them and add others later after the girls share their pictures with me...

left to right, top to bottom:  Nick (Caleb's friend) Caleb, Lily, Jalen, Ellie, Tristan, Addie, Lizi and Chloe (the sitters)

The Prueitt Family

The Snook Family

Sunset at the Red Barn

The Kiddie Car Wash

I am a little behind in my posting pictures...but a while ago I saw a "kiddie car wash" with directions and I thought it would be a fun thing to make for my three grand daughter's birthday...they are all within two weeks of each other...So Lacey and I went to Home Depot with the list and purchased the PVC pipe, and all the fittings that the directions called for...then we asked Scott to help us cut and assemble this car wash...The kids LOVE it!  We had it up for the birthday party, but I was so busy with visiting, I didn't get pictures that day of ALL the children running through the car wash...but two days ago...when the temperature was in the 90's, Addie, Tristan and Jalen were all together and I was watching them so we turned on the kiddie car wash and added three lengths of slip & slide and away they went...

As you can see, we drilled holes in the top and the sides and even across the bottom....just like a car wash, they get sprayed in all directions!  I added some fun duct tape around some of the pipes.  If you are interested in making one you can go HERE to get the directions for making one,      and here is another one from a little girls birthday party!  I didn't add a lot of the extra's...like the sponges or the strips of shower curtains, I know my little ones, they are kind of "rough" on things, and I figured those things wouldn't last long...so I just didn't bother with them!  I also purchased some buckets at the dollar store for the kids to have and they love filling them up with water and dumping them on each other or throwing them on the slip and slide!  This was the best present ever!!

Iacolucci Picnic

August 11, 2012  Another fabulous family reunion...smaller turnout this year, but nice to have more time to visit with everyone...we celebrated a cousins 80th birthday and soon her 60th wedding anniversary...my sweet aunt is 93 and it was so nice to see and talk to her.  This year my dad didn't go up with us...he just was not feeling like he could handle a 6 hour car drive (3 + hours each way).  I rode up with my brother Marty, his wife, Kim and  daughter Teale...so I was a back seat rider this time around and it was lovely to let someone else do the driving!!  My friend of 55 years, Linda came and joined us at cousin Tony Pinto's house.

Auntie Elvera, 93

Hank and daughter Melinda

Janet and Linda

Laurie, Sal, Auntie Elvera

My friend Linda, me, Carole, Bonnie and the star, Auntie Elvera

Rosie and Linda...who put the show on!  Wouldn't happen without them

Cousin Vin with the "dummy"  (his words!!)

      

Emerald Cove Catering brought the food and it was absolutely FABULOUSLY DELISH!  Two kinds of ravioli, penne, sausage with veggies and of course the Meataballsa...!!  (that's Italian speak!), garlic bread and a salad...what could be better?  Is your mouth watering???  Oh Man, it was sooo good!  And my cousin is the head chef and owner of this catering company...well, it is my cousins, son to be specific, Fred Jr. Detore...Auntie Elvera's grandson!

The Barn

We have made great progress with "The Barn"...(and I say "we", but really I have very little to do with this barn!)

Getting the siding on the outside walls...first the insulation, then the siding

One side all done, moving onto the other side now

finishing up the roof

The lift is used to bring the roof pieces up on top

The flooring was purchased online from a church in Iowa...it was shipped and was being stored in the Snook's garage

Scott used the lift to bring it down to The Barn and using the arm extension, is able to place it on the floor

Jamie is directing traffic 

We are now waiting for the lights to be delivered, that will be the next installation, after the lights then the floor can be laid.  After the floor, some laminate will go on the lower half of the walls to protect the insulation from getting ripped my balls. Then we need to build some interior walls for the tractor storage and the exercise room.  Lots to do yet...I will keep you posted!